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This summer I have been reading “Life of the Beloved” by Henri Nouwen.  The book has blessed me greatly and I wanted to share some of the thoughts with my LifeNow followers, so most of this article will be the thoughts of Henri Nouwen with a little commentary by meJ.


Nouwen begins by asserting “the greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity, or power, but self-rejection.”  It is possible that underlying feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness actually become the drivers behind our quest for success, power or popularity and even become the reason we seek escape through self-medicating.  


The powerful antidote to this problem of self-rejection is the truth that we are God’s beloved, we have been chosen by Him.  He has “noticed me in my uniqueness and has expressed a desire to know me, to come closer to me, to love me.”  These two truths; our feelings of self-rejection and the truth of our chosenness, create the great spiritual battle, the battle to reclaim our chosenness (to believe we ARE the beloved). 


Nouwen formulates three very helpful guidelines for this battle.  

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Ten Life Choices Class

Bob will be leading a Ten Life Choices class for Men at Chapel Springs Church in Bristow, VA.  The class will meet on Wednesday evenings at 7PM starting in September 2019 and run for 10 weeks.  If you or anyone you know is interested, please contact Bob and he will send you the link to sign up.  

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Epilogue to Ten Life Choices

Click here to read a recently added Epilogue to Bob's book Ten Life Choices. 

Ten Life Choices

A book about recovering the life you were always meant to live. 

365 Days of Life

A daily devotion with a life choice for each day of the year.


A 40-day journey through the book of Romans. 


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Ten Life Choices is life changing!! I have bought this book for myself and several friends. Bob talks to you about choices you can make daily to live a life WORTH living in a very practical way.     -Christine




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